2013년 5월 1일 수요일

Is dating beneficial to teenagers?

Since there is dating policy in KMLA, and teenagers have a lot of attention to their boy/girlfriend, most of students might have thought about this topic;
Is dating beneficial to teenagers?

There are some positive effects:
1. Role as a “path”
* Study, relationship, etc : can role as a path in various ways


* Healing by confessing each others’ troubles/Can reduce stress by telling about their worries which we can’t tell parents and friends/Can earn mental enjoyment


* Feel good when I’m with her/him. Secrete adrenaline by spending time with her/him.


> Example ) My friend A have changed since she got a boy friend. Before she knew about him, she couldn’t understand boys’ behaviors and thoughts. However, now, she can get along all kind of friends.


2. Synergy Effect
* Can
supplement each others’ drawbacks : Mutual supplementary


* Can develop by piecing together, such as personality : Can gain experiences which I can’t get from same sex friends.


* Study : Tutoring each other –The most ideal effect of relationship between boys and girls


* Character : Change flaws into advantages.
3. Teenagers’ own pureness
* Not weighing each other with their backgrounds (Fall in love with pure feelings)
* Don’t consider each other as a purpose / Can make an accurate value of sex during teenagers.
* Mental supporting / Can heal, feel comfort by just being with her, him
* Raise possibility to have proper relationships with other people after became adults
* Huge advantages to their mentality



There are also some negative effects:

1. It can affect teenagers' school scores negatively.


* They can waste their time to contact their boy/girlfriend. KaKaoTalk, Messages, or phone calls...
* They can't concentrate on their studying.


* They may spend more time to their appearance. They want to look pretty or handsome to their boy/girlfriend.


* They can use their time to dating, not studying.

2. They can do excessive physical affection.


* They don't know much about the opposite sex, so they can be curious about it.


* They can't control themselves well, since they are still immature.


* Excessive physical affection can cause some big problem which teenagers cannot handle.



3. They can have wrong perspective of sex.


* Since they are not grown-ups, some of teenagers can't recognize the right way to treat their boy/girlfriend.
* Some teens can treat or be treated badly by their boy/or girlfriend.


* Some of them who experienced those situations can have a wrong perspective when they are teens.


* It can last after they grow up.


So regarding these points, and with new creature other details from experience of all of you, we want to lead a discussion about whether or not dating is beneficial or appropriate for teenagers.

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